Why we do not get what we want?
1) Our parents, guardians, teachers, spouse, children, relatives, friends-neighbors (influential persons) do not approve of our wish.
2) We have conflicting wishes, so cannot decide which to pursue
3) Our limited resources
4) We are afraid of rejection by family/society.
5) We are afraid of consequences of our lonely trial
6) We think realistically and let go of our wish
7) Change in immediate circumstances / environment