Outer me, inner me!
There is a constant fight between our wishes and the unwelcome response we get from the outside world.
We feel happy and good when we receive approval for our wishes. The chances of our wish getting fulfilled increase with outer approval.
If our wishes are not welcome by family/society, we feel unhappy-angry-frustrated. Our frustration may or may not surface.
What happens to our wishes?
- We suppress our wish/s
- We try to fight for outer approval
- We may venture alone to fulfill it
During this long journey, right from our childhood, we create two faces of ourselves.
1) Inner face- which has kept all our secret wishes and desires (our true self).
2) Outer face - which is fairly sociable and tries to fit in various sections of society (our false self).
