Who controls me?
Our mind has three parts (Dr. Sigmund Freud)
1) A small child in us (Id)
This part is emotional, impulsive, immature, dependent, romantic, naive, manipulative, rebellious, optimistic, vulnerable, irresponsible, feeling special about self, demanding, begging for unconditional love, respect, acceptance, approval, closeness, appreciation from significant people around.
If somebody disapproves/gets angry/rejects communication, it becomes dejected, unhappy, and rejects self (punishes self). It is prepared to do anything to get love. It is blind and deaf to see and hear reality. It is not prepared to accept the consequences of it's decisions and actions.
One thing which is highly important is;it knows what it wants. Funny part is; it genuinely feels that it's every wish has to be fulfilled with no cost.