Why do we get confused?
If we always listen to a child in us,we may get happiness, yet,
it sometimes might be not approved by significant persons around us.
If we always obey to a parent in us,
We might have to compromise with those things which make us happy.
So, dominance by any single part leads to imbalance.
This imbalance and fight creates instability, confusion, chaos, disturbance in our mind.